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Inspire the You from the You
Everyone in this world will be
dreaming of becoming successful persons. They have a prejudice and sit mum
dreaming that they’re going to show the world who they are some or other day.
They construct their future as they’re going to become very great persons and
the rest of the world will follow them. They will be the role models for
children in the future. The students learn about their contributions in their
respective fields through books. They’ll be receiving accolades for their great
work. Their family will be very proud of them and feel happy in disclosing
their relation. And sometimes even think of being rich and the word ‘poverty’
will be erased from their dictionary and dream what not. Some end up just
dreaming and don’t go much far. But some do really become their own role models,
meaning they make their dreams a complete reality some fine day.
An interest can remain in a person for a short time and in some others lifelong. Choosing an interest has to be done carefully. And only long term interests are your permanent ones that are going to change your life. You can find them easily. You don't want to think about things which don't interest you. Thinking about which gives you pleasure is what you love doing. Thinking about them gives you energy. So you can filter the one which you love the most from those interesting things. Sometimes we find people doing unique jobs, totally different from others. But still, we can find them happy and are successful which means they are satisfied. They love doing their jobs.
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The ultimate way for a person to become
successful is adhere to his defined values. A person has to define his own
values. Values here are nothing but his qualities. A person’s behavior is
entirely dependent on his own thoughts. He has the full control of himself. No
one else in this world will control him. Yes, there might be influencing
factors, but ultimately he has to decide what he has to do. As if someone tells
him to slap a person with no reason why would he do? (Excepting the mentally
disabled people). So that shows a person has what is called “Sense of Judgement”
and can distinguish between things good and bad.
Firstly check yourself, do you
aim for something? Do you want to get something? Or else are you an aimless creature?
If yes, then you should know that you’ve been sent to this earth in the human
avatar only to do something in this world rather than just grow and die like a weed.
A person’s success depends on
two main factors. They are-
1. Interest
2. Patience
Before going
brief about the two factors, let us know the definition of success. It is to
achieve what you wish to achieve. You can only achieve if you deserve to
achieve. It is not all about earning money and getting rich which most people do.
But aiming for a success is achieving the thing that gives you happiness and
satisfaction while you are struggling for it. That is nothing but called as ‘Passion’.
Firstly let’s see how interest
plays its role. One develops interest in something only if he loves doing it.
One knows very well which thing interests him the most.
"Dream is not that which you see while sleeping, it is something that doesn't let you sleep"-Dr. A.P.J.Abdul Kalam (Scientist and Former President of India)
An interest can remain in a person for a short time and in some others lifelong. Choosing an interest has to be done carefully. And only long term interests are your permanent ones that are going to change your life. You can find them easily. You don't want to think about things which don't interest you. Thinking about which gives you pleasure is what you love doing. Thinking about them gives you energy. So you can filter the one which you love the most from those interesting things. Sometimes we find people doing unique jobs, totally different from others. But still, we can find them happy and are successful which means they are satisfied. They love doing their jobs.
“If you are not doing what you love, you're wasting you're time."
-Billy Joel (American pianist,singer-songwriter,and composer).
So, one should try to retain
one’s interest in spite of difficulties. If Mr. Bill Gates would have got
disappointed and lost his patience for getting no support for his the then
weird passion of computers, he would not be the “Father of Software Technology”
now.
Patience is the one without
which achieving success is impossible. One might sometimes feel they’re doing
no good in their journey and lose hope, which is nothing but losing patience. "Rome wasn't built in one day". So one
should be determined and persist with a motive “Keep on trying until you get it”.
How to define one’s values? The two
things with which values are defined are-
1. Planning.
2. Adhering to the designed plan.
A person knows the best of
himself. If a plan has to be made of your schedule for tomorrow, you’re the
best person who can make a best plan which suits you the best. You also accept
it because you made it which you would hesitate to accede if someone else has
made it for you. Adhering to one’s set rules is what decides honesty. You defined your
rules thinking by following them makes you feel you’re going right in the
journey. So, one should adhere to them strictly.
What if you do mistakes? It is
said that we learn a lot from mistakes. But the science behind our mistakes is
not paying attention at one or more aspects of the situation. Some small things
get unnoticed through our eyes’ corners. We are sometimes careless about the
things which are worth to be concerned. Improving our concentration and
intelligence might help overcoming it. Playing some games which are meant to
improve them might help. Best example which helps developing intelligence is
chess. For concentration, playing some electronic concentration (time
management) games might be useful.
Dos and Don’ts
Don’t at all fall in the trap of
two things. One is money and the other is blind love (which generally happens
amongst the youth). If it happens with money, you’ll become it’s slave and you
do things what money wants you to do instead of doing things which make you
feel happy and thankful for possessing a human life. Don’t worry about it as
your hard work pays you the worth. And if blind love is the case, you’ll forget that
you’re a part of this world and start constructing your own beautiful planet in
delusion. They turn out be dangerous drugs which becomes very difficult to get rid of
even with the best treatments of the world. Before they get wild, we need to
learn to maintain a healthy relationship with them, as we can’t neglect them
totally.
Don’t search for opportunities,
as they’re doing their job in searching for you. All you need to do is utilise
them the best way you can when they’re in front of you. Until they arrive to
you, be patient and concentrate on your passion, as opportunities are not fools
that they come and pick up fools for their purpose. If you’re best in your
field, its obvious that you’ll win some or other day.
Having many aims and concentrate
on none go no far but just remain dreaming. You cannot become the world’s
greatest boxer and the world’s greatest singer at the same time. If you try
to do so, you’ll definitely end up achieving nothing. So concentrate on one thing at
a time.
Does pleasure really give you pleasure?
“Hard work is only for some time, but victory is forever”.
-Roger Federer (Swiss Tennis player)
Pleasure makes you happy only
for a while but hard work gives you a lifelong pleasure of satisfaction.” A
man who can resist his temptations wins.” which is sometimes impossible
practically. So, better avoid them by not tasting them at all.
Just remember one thing, aiming
and achievement should be done with moral values as a flavour.
Does helping others waste your
time? No. But in fact you’ll be helped by some other rich man when you get poor
in your journey.
What if you get
discharged?
The case of getting discharged happens when you end up forgetting about your goals. If so, come back here
to get yourself charged by reading this blog again with interest and zeal.
Battery
backup might be different for different people. It depends upon the intensity of
achieving their dreams. Finally don’t forget to be healthy. Because being
healthy is being happy and being happy is being healthy. Share this with the
ones whom you care about and wish for their successful lives. All this was to
make you realise you’ve been gifted a human life unlike the stones and mountains.
Even they stand for a purpose serving the universe at some or other time. So,
why don’t we think to make our lives meaningful and worth living.Follow @ZmRox
Tuesday, February 19, 2013
Money- The Universal Language
Where ever you go across this globe, the universal language which people
understand is money. It is this language which decides the peoples' perception.
The way we communicate through money decides ones behaviour, character,
attitude etc. As we get a notion on person's character observing the way he
addresses different people, we can determine his complete individuality by
perceiving the way he utilizes his money in different situations.
People
get attracted to innovative speeches, good or bad, according to their sense of
judgement. If they like the ideology of such people, they set them as their
inspiring personalities.
Here
arises corruption. The cunning people lure innocent people in innumerable ways
and try to rule on them. The innocent people fear to raise their voice and
continue to suffer.
There
arises the concept of “Open Theft”. This is done by the so called great people
through bluffing the innocent. They take mere advantage of their innocence. Thus
money sometimes gets concentrated near some people who really don’t deserve it,
by the name “Black Money”.
Money
leads cruel people to become crueler. They become senseless and don’t hesitate
in killing their own parents, brothers & sisters who were his important
part of life. They were the ones who taught him to walk in the roughest paths.
But, they unfortunately couldn’t make him acquire the decision making skills
lacking which, he took such a huge step of afflicting them. He doesn’t realise
that some fine day, he might get killed by some other cruel person with more
cruelty.
The
dowry related harassments in India are an example to this. This leads true
relations to break like threads which may be joined later but only by a knot.
So don’t let misery be a foolish reason for such knots. So when cruelty gets
planted in one’s mind he should visit a psychologist to remove the roots before
they grow too big underneath.
What Can We Do?
A well known saying that "Home is the first school of a
person's social behaviour", reflects the notion that the parents must
teach a child the right way to behave and thereby also teach him the right way
of spending his money.
There
is no separate body or special organisation meant for this that reminds people
to check themselves how effective communicators they are. There are a number of
institutes, training centres that train people in learning English, French
etc., certify them for completing the course. People face a number of personality
tests like ‘Myers Briggs Type
Indicator’ and many more to name. They measure how well their
character is. The recruiter decides whether his character is up to his desired
level or not.
We
send children to schools to get educated, learn moral values. Do you think
there is no use of giving them that dignified education? No, because we know
their behaviour is nurtured in schools. They’re taught to behave the way they
should to become successful citizens. They get deviated only if they meet an
environment that spoils their values and might get attracted to it. But if the
person is also taught to control himself in such drastic situations, he
definitely can.
Similarly,
if one is made taught the requisite financial education with good moral values
as a flavour, he would definitely retain them. In a society if someone goes
wrong, the well wishers of him should try to correct him on every go.
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